Lesbian Porn Is Indoctrination

No, that’s totally a joke.  But, for me, it’s kind of not.

I love porn.  I always have.  It’s a wonderful thing.  Somehow over the course of my porn-watching lifetime, I’ve gravitated toward lesbian porn.  It’s pretty much all I watch now, actually.  Don’t get me wrong, I still love the D, but lesbian porn is way more of a turn on for me at this point.

I think it turned me bi, too.  Well, bicurious, at least.  Like, you can only masturbate to snatch-licking so many times before you start really wanting to do it too.  Crystal’s (Newest) Ultimate Fantasy, as a result, is a big ol’ lesbian orgy with lots of spread-legged hotties.  There is probably wine, and a collection of colorful vibrators.

Anyway, my lesbian porn consumption indoctrinated me into a new realm of sexuality, one of pussy-on-pussy action.  I can’t help recall that Slutever post, though, with the, “You’re not gay, you’re just slutty,” line, and I wonder if there’s truth to that in my case.  This is entirely sexual for me, after all.  I’ve never had a girlfriend and I have no interest in having one.  The dating thing is still about men.

But a pretty pink pussy to play with is an incredible turn on for me, and something I hope to incorporate into my sex life if possible.

On that note, I’m glad that so many of my female friends are porn-positive, because porn is great.  There’s still this weird misconception that most women don’t like porn, and I don’t think that’s accurate.  I mean, what’s not to like?  It’s good that I can relate to my friends on this, because I can’t relate to even most pro-porn, sex-positive feminists.  It always seems that even though they support a woman’s decision to do sex work and can see how performative sexuality is empowering, they still feel the need to trash talk certain acts.  Like anal, facials, bondage, and really any situation in which the woman is submissive.  That’s not fair.

Submissive sex is my favorite sex.  It’s better than passionate lovemaking, for sure.  I want it rough.  For example, I’m way more turned on by the promise of a facial cumshot than I am by candlelight and soft music.  Romance is great, but it’s so much more emotional than physical.  I separate the two, and I want the physical to be aggressive.  It’s like, you can buy me some chocolates and I’ll be pleased with you.  Or you can clothespin my labia open and tie up my clit with twine.  Then we’ll be together forever.  ❤

(Of course, I’m discussing these sex acts in the context of a serious relationship.  If a girl just went home with some random guy from the bar and he started doing these things without asking, that would probably be gross and scary to most women.)

Anyway, I guess what I’m saying is that porn has influenced my sex life in a really positive way.  It’s gotten me to explore my sexuality and introduced me to new possibilities.  These days I’m really into women, or at least pussies, and that’s just the newest sexual realm I’m into exploring because of porn.

So, thanks, porn.

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